How to Figure Out Your Sexuality If You Think You like Girls
In this day and age we no longer simply have ‘straight’ and ‘gay’ but we have a lot in-between with many fluid sexualities as well. So how do you figure out your sexuality?
It can be an incredibly difficult and confusing time for many people. They simply don’t know what they are or who they like. For both guys and girls this can be a hard time and one where you aren’t really sure what to do.
We have come up with some questions that you need to ask yourself if you want to figure out your sexuality if you like girls.
Ready? Read on.
Do You Think You Would Enjoy Sex with a Girl?
This is one of the most obvious questions to ask. Your sexuality is highly dominated by who turns you on.
Do you look at girls and get aroused by them? What about when they touch you even if it isn’t in a sexual way? If you don’t get any of these things then you probably don’t like girl as a sexual partner. If you do experience a tingling throughout your body then that is a good sign that you definitely like girls.
Are You Being Influenced by Other People
It is easy to give into peer pressure and to be influenced by others when we are young. This can happen to those who are still trying to figure out their sexuality.
Have a long think about the people around you. Do your friends and family tell you that you like girls or do you think it yourself? Do you only this because they have told you that you do? If this is the case then you might be too heavily influenced by them and need to take a step back. Try to ask yourself the hard questions of what gender you like instead of letting others decide for you.
Maybe You Need to Just Try It
The bottom line is that you probably don’t know if you really like girls or not without actually seeing what it is like going out on a date or having sex.
If it turns out that it isn’t for you and you simply see them as friends then there is your answer. If you do get that tingling feeling, a sense of nervousness because you are attracted to them and also you feel passionate about them then there is your answer as well. Oftentimes experience counts for more than anything else.
Don’t Be Scared to Address Your Feelings
It can be a real challenge to find out what your sexuality is. You will probably be incredibly confused and not sure what to do. This is only natural.
Don’t expect an answer right away. It can take some time to figure out if you like girls or not and sometimes the only way you will truly know is if you experience what it is like to date a girl first. Don’t let others influence you and keep yourself opened minded for every eventuality.